"Worse, many of us are encumbered by the way we love, not only by our pasts and insecurities, but also by our best intentions; that which we follow only to arrive to a personal hell of our making. This is only made possible by the fact that we all love differently, and we all want to be loved differently. I am a staunch believer that the only reason why a relationship (grounded in the foundation of compatibility and respect) may fail is because of the people involved. You only have yourselves to point to for accountability. And too many good couples who are fully capable to work their issues out throw in the towel for lack of the willingness to work – and it only takes one unwilling party to crumble."
By Adrienne Ng
Yes, it only takes one to give up the relationship and all that you've built up will come crashing down. You feel as though the love is worth nothing at all in your partner's eyes. So, I've learnt that even if anything has to come between a couple, one still has to love responsibly – that’s the ‘right’ way to love.
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